Wedding Invitations
Wedding Invitations 411
When planning weddings, each detail must be laid out. Wedding planners
(like Jennifer Lopez’ title role in “The Wedding Planner” and Steve
Martin’s character in “Father of the Bride”) is responsible for the
wedding invitations.
Wedding invitations may look simple to the receivers’ eye, but to the
people behind it, planning how it looks was a matter a debate among
them. Here’s an insider look on how wedding invitations come to be:
The Color Is Symbolic
The bride thinks of the motif of her wedding months before the day
arrives. Most of the time, the wedding invitation has these colors.
Wedding invitations are the preview to the special day.
By combining two different colors that look good when set against one
another, the wedding invitation is more appealing to the receivers’
eye. Invitations commune in a silent way – they are symbolisms and the
colors have meaning.
There are color trends. Like back in the 60s and 70s, the popular color
was the avocado green. Numerous nuptials held during that era had
wedding invites of that color. Soon enough, the dresses of the
bridesmaids were of that shade as well.
Understand color meanings as well as the appropriate matching and mixing of colors.
The Font Is Important
Let’s do this exercise. Go to your Microsoft Word program and click on
the font option. You would have to continuously scroll down to browse
through all the fonts that are available for you to use. From A to Z,
these fonts serve as the choices for the wedding planner, bride and
groom.
Of course, the fonts available for wedding invitations may not be the
exact one that you see in your Microsoft word program. The makers of
the wedding invitations present lettering examples to their client.
Once selecting which font they would like to use for their wedding
planner, they have the option to go with the basic black or choose
another color.
Script fonts for wedding invitations must be formal and elegant. The
script serves as the tone for serious wedding invitations. Too formal
may equate too dull.
If the font has lots of lines and swirls, it conveys a feminine touch.
The wedding invitation must be personal. Often, wedding invitations are
engraved on scented stationery – white with touches of pink.
Here are suggested formal scripts: CommScript, Exmouth, Freeborder Script and Scriptina.
If you prefer informal and casual scripts, have a look at Dymaxion Script, Noodle Script, Stereo HiFi and Still Time.
Now we move to what must be written on the wedding invitation. Here is how you compose the traditional wedding invitation.
The first name your guests see on the wedding invitation are the names
of the people who will be paying for the event. Most cases, this is the
bride’s parents. If both the bride and the groom will be paying, then
it is their names that appear first on the invitation.
The words “cordially invite” you is the most formal phrasing on the
wedding invitation. If the wedding will be held at a place of worship,
then the wedding invitation should read “request the honor of your
presence.” For informal invitations, the wording can be “request the
pleasure of your company.”
Now if the engaged couple are the ones paying for the wedding, “invite
you to join us at the celebration of our marriage” is written.
The bride must always be mentioned first, followed by the groom.
The date and time are traditionally spelled out:
Saturday, the twenty-fourth of September
Two thousand and seven
At two o’clock in the afternoon.
But it can also be written as:
Saturday, September 24, 2007
at 2 pm.
If the ceremony is a location known by most, you don’t have to include
the address. But if it is an intimate one or your home, the address
must be written out.
The wedding invitation will also include the time and venue for the
reception. The reception follows the wedding ceremony. Traditionally,
the guests will move from the location of the wedding to the place of
the ceremony.
Most importantly, you have to ask your guests to RSVP. RSVP is the
abbreviated form of the French sentence “Respondez Sil Vous Plait”
which translates to “Please reply.” This will give you an idea on how
many people are coming. Upon having that knowledge, the seat plan will
be easier to organize.
Do not forget to include the attire. This will help the guests decide
on what they will wear. If you do not want people to come in wearing
jeans, then include the line “black tie.”
Now, you’re ready. That’s just step one. But at least you’re on your way to plan your dream wedding.
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